Laura A. Jacobs, LCSW-R

My mission is to aid gender and sexually diverse people find joy…

and to change the world.

 

You should never have to justify your identity to a provider. As an award-winning therapist with nearly 20 years experience, I provide culturally competent, compassionate, trauma-informed, and affirming psychotherapy to help you make decisions about your own life.

Whether you are transgender, lesbian, gay, bisexual, nonbinary, genderqueer, gender nonconforming, kinky, queer, questioning, pansexual, asexual, detransitioner/retransitioner, Dominant, submissive, kinky, into BDSM, a sex worker, monogamous, polyamorous, neurodivergent, neurospicy, neurotypical, or unicorn... even cisgender, straight/hetero, or vanilla… our goal together is your happiness.

In service to our communities, I have volunteered on Boards of Directors, committees, and elsewhere, made several hundred (300+) educational and other public appearances including workshops at conferences, lectures in colleges and universities, appearances in the media, and elsewhere. I have also written books and articles. This has largely been pro-bono activism, advocating for the rights and healthcare of gender and sexually diverse communities.

We can be defiant against the current physical and legislative assaults on our identities where ‘they’ bully the vulnerable, inciting hate, violence, fear, and despair. If you, like so many are distressed about the current world… I can provide support and hope.

 

Fuck the fascists. we are fierce. And we can experience joy.

 
Laura A. Jacobs, LCSW-R, holding their book Surviving Transphobia
 
 

LAURA A. JACOBS PLLC, LCSW-R

Hiya!! I’m Laura.

I believe our lives provide fascinating opportunities to explore the human experience. I am devoted to the exploration of identity and the relationship between individual and society, the diversity of gender and sexual identity and expression, and the search for existential meaning. And I am a fierce advocate against those who would see us returned to the shadows, the closets, or worse.

 
 
 

Life is not about finding yourself... it’s about creating yourself.

— G.B. Shaw

 
 
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UPDATE:

Laura’s recent Anthology receives the 2025 Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity Distinguished Book Award!!! from the American Psychological Association!

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“We have survived, here's how. And if we can survive… so can you.”

 
 
... [Surviving Transphobia is a book] I love and that you should check out… I devoured it and found it very inspirational and hopeful.
— Elliot Page
 

Surviving Transphobia is an anthology by 16 prominent transgender and gender nonbinary celebrities and experts on endurance during times of severe hostility. We share the moments when we were vulnerable, were bullied, had needs dismissed, or were discriminated against, revealing our determination and how we have (sometimes) managed to thrive.

We relate our thoughts on the current, well-funded campaign threatening our very existence. All so you can learn from our experience, and hopefully, thrive and find joy.

This book is an LGBTQIA+, transgender and nonbinary resource for those coping with transphobia. We also speak to our allies, those nearer or even those with less direct connection to transgender and nonbinary people but who are eager to understand and support our vulnerable community.

Other featured awards

STANDARD OF EXCE AWARD, the American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists

IMPACT AWARD

Gay City News

CHAMPION OF SOCIAL JUSTICE AWARD
The National Association of Social Workers